How that can be possible ???? I mean no , I don’t believe they did it with a cow ….. Oh Lord…. what the hell is this going on…. are we humans ??? are they ???
Dear readers, first of all this is not a story or incident… it’s an agony … of me, of us, of humanity….. what are we waiting for ?? will we wake up when something like this happen to us ?? sometimes i feel like it’s not only the police commissioner of Delhi who is responsible but its me who is responsible and almost 90% people of the country are responsible… tell me how many of us have ever tried to visualize the problem near us ??? we all know about the 16 Dec 2012 Damini case and now this 5 year old rape victim… we may know a few more through the television channels .. but do we really care for girls except the victims ?? have we ever tried to stop any sort of eve teasing ??? let it be the abusive language or some cheap actions in crowd ??? I know i am asking too much and I don’t have any such rights to ask and after all we have police for that … But at least we can look after such mantel patients near us and can put them to the nearest psychiatrist hospital…. Yes i agree and I do believe raping a girl is not a crime if we look at it more seriously…. this actually is a mental sickness….. and responsible are us…. we never try to stop the problem from its origin but we always blame each other when it becomes non curable …
The problem can be seen by the fact that a rape victim can be of any age but the rapists are almost adults…. none of the rapists become this sick to rape someone in one day…. but it starts at their early age…..
First lesson they learn at their own home.. where parents treat them like a VIP just because they are males… all the boundaries .. whether it is a dress selection or hair cutting are for girls….. so for males it is their birth right to do whatever…. The brother , let it be younger or elder but he can slap his sister or can beat her whenever he feels like … and then there too he has full support from none other than another woman.. his mother… Sister supposes to prepare his food…. no matter he is a younger or elder… and there the male starts taking a girl as a slave for males…
Then in school…. from cricket to baseball to soccer we have teams for boys but in my country we have a very less number of woman teams in schools…. A teacher can easily find this abusive instinct in a guy…. but they don’t take them serious at that moment which comes as an accident later sometimes….
Then in colleges and then in professional life…. I am not saying that each one of us is spoiled .. but yes almost all of us… and i have no shame to accept that I overcome this mental disease because of my mother’s slaps….
But not all of the guys are as lucky as i am, this is not their mistake entirely….
We don’t need to make strong laws or power full punishments to prevent this ….. but we need to develop respect in our son’s heart for their mother, their sister, their classmates… for girls… All we need is to never ignore their disobey to a female…. Never let the incident be as they did it…. instead take your instant action to prevent an accident tomorrow….. We may not change the Past.. But we sure can make a better future……
Teach your Son how to respect a girl if you want your daughter to be respected by another Guy….
I can understand he is your son….. but remember…… its better to make him realize today than to cry on his act tomorrow…….